Prietenul meu vrea sex anal, insa eu nu...

Love doesn't consist in anal sex.

O sa va spun problema mea..Si as prefera sa vorbesc in engleza pentru ca prietenul meu nu e roman si poate o sa inteleaga asta pentru totdeauna.Daca stiti sa imi raspundeti in engleza va raman datoare..Pentru ca vreau sa ii trimit lui parerile voastre.Nu este caterinca..
So, my boyfriend is not a Romanian. I love him a lot and he also loves me.We tried to make anal sex but i felt very bad, i had pain, although we used cream.I really don't want to try this again, because it hurts me a lot, and I only feel pain, not pleasure.He always tell me that he will teach me to do this good, and i could learn to feel very good like this.But i don't want to try this.I explained this to him, but he insists and insists.He tells me that i don't love him, because if I really love him, i will do this for him.I explained him that sometimes if u don't want to do something in a couple that doesn't mean I dont love him, or he doesn't love me..I don't know what to do, sometimes i think that he doesn't love me at all, if he insists to do something that hurts my body.He tells me that he can teach me to feel good, but i dont want this.And he even told me that he will not marry me if i don't do this, because in his opinion making anal, means thAt i love him. i DONT KNOW, HE IS like a baby, if u dont do this u dont love me..He doesn't understand that sometimes in a relationship the two can have different opinions.I told him if this is such an important matter for him, he can do whatever he wants...Love doesn't consist in anal sex.Tell me your opinions.